We live in a world engrossed with confusion, some love the sensationalism others crave the pain. People seriously need to ask themselves Is it really worth making people miserable. It's strange, as a child I was repetitively being convinced how much of a mean person I was. I was constantly told I was a liar, if something was missing I took it. I just always felt that I had to prove everything. Now, as an adult; I strive to prove nothing. Either you like me or you don't. Most won't either, because the world loves confusion. I've had to fight all my life....yes! I just quoted Oprah Winfrey in The Color Purple. I just don't see the need in having to make someone, anyone for that matter believe me. Now. I just don't care anymore. People will think and believe what they want regardless. I often just sit and ponder over why folks are so miserable. Simply speaking and its cliche' misery does love company. Their simple, poor yet stupid thought process is "If I'm miserable, they can be". Why would anyone want the next person to be in pain like them? Its so sad. I suffer from a chronic illness and I would never wish it on anyone. No one. I want no one to be this miserable. I guess what I'm saying is live and let live. If you don't like the choice another person has made, that's ok but realize its their choice. Don't give your opinion unless asked. If you do, you will be the blame. For everything, people ALWAYS have too blame somebody else. We live in a sad, useless evil world. Instead of being part of the problem.......Work on being part of the solution.
~Lovingly Caro
Wednesday, February 11, 2015
Tuesday, January 14, 2014
Stuff......Learn to let go of the STUFF!!!!
I am writing this blog based on my day, how I am feeling and with the hope that I can give someone, anyone a message. I have been going through a personal issue for many years, on today I tried to get it rectified and to move forward with it and I have come too a stand still. Normally, I would have cried, complained and gone in to another form of depression. But, thankfully I realize that I am only hurting myself. Me, and I am not hurting anyone else. In addition to that, its only stuff. Everybody goes through stuff, it depends on how you handle the stuff and how you choose to move forward. I came to this conclusion while putting away my groceries. I am going to do all that I can to look at my situations as just STUFF!
If we learn to accept things and move forward, smile and keep focused we will be able to handle things in a completely positive manner. I am so thankful today, thankful for people that have given me advice today....Thanks to my new friend Gabriel whom I met at the courthouse and I just so thankful for everything. I beginning to believe if you look at things from a whole new prespective, you will have joy. I'm speaking from a spiritual aspect to. Nothing is possible without God and when we lend onto him when things seem so out of reach, this is when he is holding his hand out too you saying "And I've got this one too, my child". I just hope this helps someone, anyone. I am not saying forget life, forget about your responsibilities all I am saying is NEVER allow the STUFF to get you down because when its all said and done...........It's only STUFF!
God Bless Everyone of YOU!!!!!
~Carol
I am writing this blog based on my day, how I am feeling and with the hope that I can give someone, anyone a message. I have been going through a personal issue for many years, on today I tried to get it rectified and to move forward with it and I have come too a stand still. Normally, I would have cried, complained and gone in to another form of depression. But, thankfully I realize that I am only hurting myself. Me, and I am not hurting anyone else. In addition to that, its only stuff. Everybody goes through stuff, it depends on how you handle the stuff and how you choose to move forward. I came to this conclusion while putting away my groceries. I am going to do all that I can to look at my situations as just STUFF!
If we learn to accept things and move forward, smile and keep focused we will be able to handle things in a completely positive manner. I am so thankful today, thankful for people that have given me advice today....Thanks to my new friend Gabriel whom I met at the courthouse and I just so thankful for everything. I beginning to believe if you look at things from a whole new prespective, you will have joy. I'm speaking from a spiritual aspect to. Nothing is possible without God and when we lend onto him when things seem so out of reach, this is when he is holding his hand out too you saying "And I've got this one too, my child". I just hope this helps someone, anyone. I am not saying forget life, forget about your responsibilities all I am saying is NEVER allow the STUFF to get you down because when its all said and done...........It's only STUFF!
God Bless Everyone of YOU!!!!!
~Carol
Daniel Fast.......considering it
I have been reading a bit on the Daniel Fast. I'm extremely intrigued, not only by the closer relationship I would establish with the Lord, but the health benefits are interesting too. I was considering doing the fast some years ago, but the thought was stolen when I felt that I simply couldn't afford it. However, when I look at the "foolishness" I spent my money on now......Looking back that would have been a great thing. I desire too be in tune with my whole self. I desire to have, do and be ALL good things. I am realizing now, that putting off those things that are good for you is the "devils" way of stealing your blessings.
Hence the reason for me to now planning on doing this Daniel Fast. We have to be ready to give some things up. We must be ready to sacrifice just as Jesus did for us. I am looking forward to change, change is good. So, as I continue to search, surf and pray for guidance from the Lord I will keep you good people in mind. Sooooooo, if someone out there has done the Daniel Fast and you have pointers that you feel may be helpful please feel free to post to my blog. I would greatly appreciate it. Please send any and helpful comments, send any and all comments....please.
Well, with the Love of Christ I leave you and I pray for you all good things!
~Carol
Hence the reason for me to now planning on doing this Daniel Fast. We have to be ready to give some things up. We must be ready to sacrifice just as Jesus did for us. I am looking forward to change, change is good. So, as I continue to search, surf and pray for guidance from the Lord I will keep you good people in mind. Sooooooo, if someone out there has done the Daniel Fast and you have pointers that you feel may be helpful please feel free to post to my blog. I would greatly appreciate it. Please send any and helpful comments, send any and all comments....please.
Well, with the Love of Christ I leave you and I pray for you all good things!
~Carol
Monday, April 30, 2012
A Book Review; Cater to Her By, Sean Mitchell
Cater to Her was a really interesting book. Angelica, Aurelius
and Titus all were something else, omg! and let's not forget Rochelle, Angelica's bestfriend. This book was amazingly, addicting. It's a story of a love gone bad, religion and lies, sex and scandal. Angelica's best friend Rochelle, a very blunt and unfaithful married women kills herself at the end of the story due to a failed friendship with Angelica. Angelica is engaged to Titus a pastor who lacks affection toward Angelica in every since of the word. But takes a lady friend to Africa on his mission. Funny thing about this is that the woman he takes to Africa is his ex-girlfriend. Aureluis is the caterer that Titus entrusts with his fiance', Angelica. Aureluis, in turn has an appetite for S & M and loves pain. Aureluis is a hurt man, due to a failed first love, he cooks for Angelica and falls in love with her and there starts a no holds bar relationship with them. This book was a trip! I don't want to give all the nuggets away but I would recommend this book. I must tell you, this book is not for the faint at heart!!!!
and Titus all were something else, omg! and let's not forget Rochelle, Angelica's bestfriend. This book was amazingly, addicting. It's a story of a love gone bad, religion and lies, sex and scandal. Angelica's best friend Rochelle, a very blunt and unfaithful married women kills herself at the end of the story due to a failed friendship with Angelica. Angelica is engaged to Titus a pastor who lacks affection toward Angelica in every since of the word. But takes a lady friend to Africa on his mission. Funny thing about this is that the woman he takes to Africa is his ex-girlfriend. Aureluis is the caterer that Titus entrusts with his fiance', Angelica. Aureluis, in turn has an appetite for S & M and loves pain. Aureluis is a hurt man, due to a failed first love, he cooks for Angelica and falls in love with her and there starts a no holds bar relationship with them. This book was a trip! I don't want to give all the nuggets away but I would recommend this book. I must tell you, this book is not for the faint at heart!!!!
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Lets Talk Leggings !
Never wear leggings with shirts that are short, always wear them with shirts, sweaters or jackets that cover your rear!
Never wear leggings that are so see through that one can see your undergarments and their embellishments, ie lace, bows or fishnet.
Always wear leggings that are becoming to you. Stay away from white, beige and light colored one's they usually are so see through it appears you are wearing pajama's in the daytime!
Some good looks for leggings are button shirts, another would be a man's button down striped shirt with a wide belt at the waist, a blazer and some hot leather booties....Ohhhwee....
Leggings look great with tunics that have lots of color to accent the solid color legging. But stay away from patterns that are to busy if you have large busts.
Always take a second, third and fourth look when stepping out. Smile and step out looking polished and super fly demanding the respect you so deserve.
Wear it girl, you wear it well. Remain being that Curvy Diva that dwells deep down within.
~Living and Lovin' This Life
Never wear leggings that are so see through that one can see your undergarments and their embellishments, ie lace, bows or fishnet.
Always wear leggings that are becoming to you. Stay away from white, beige and light colored one's they usually are so see through it appears you are wearing pajama's in the daytime!
Some good looks for leggings are button shirts, another would be a man's button down striped shirt with a wide belt at the waist, a blazer and some hot leather booties....Ohhhwee....
Leggings look great with tunics that have lots of color to accent the solid color legging. But stay away from patterns that are to busy if you have large busts.
Always take a second, third and fourth look when stepping out. Smile and step out looking polished and super fly demanding the respect you so deserve.
Wear it girl, you wear it well. Remain being that Curvy Diva that dwells deep down within.
~Living and Lovin' This Life
Ok Ladies, This is A Huge No-No......
DON'T WEAR LEGGINGS WITH SHORT TOPS!!!!
As a sexy, confident and attractive full-figured woman I know that it is okay for me to say this. Why would any woman be caught dead or for that matter in public with leggings on so thin you can see her panties (bows, lace and all) through her very sheer leggings?
I believe many women think this is SUPER sexy, I for one feel it shows that the woman sporting the contraption is looking for trouble. When I say looking for trouble I mean in the form of rude comments, vulgar looks from those who might find this sexy. To each her own, but if you expect...... respect and admiration is what we seek we will not get it by putting any type of garment on our bodies.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you or myself wearing leggings, just leave more to the imagine, keep all ya' business out the streets. I would suggest wearing darker colored leggings without textures or patterns, the thicker type. Wear a long men's shirt with a belt and a blazer and some short bootie boots to top it off. That is a great look. We as full figure women need to get away from "if they sell it in my size I can wear it". This is NOT so. I believe one would/could have much more confidence if she covered her body in a more respectable classy way. Do yourself a favor and dress to impress always. There is nothing more attractive then a nice ample woman who dresses nice. Wear on your body those pieces that compliment your curves!
Living and Lovin' This Life !
As a sexy, confident and attractive full-figured woman I know that it is okay for me to say this. Why would any woman be caught dead or for that matter in public with leggings on so thin you can see her panties (bows, lace and all) through her very sheer leggings?
I believe many women think this is SUPER sexy, I for one feel it shows that the woman sporting the contraption is looking for trouble. When I say looking for trouble I mean in the form of rude comments, vulgar looks from those who might find this sexy. To each her own, but if you expect...... respect and admiration is what we seek we will not get it by putting any type of garment on our bodies.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you or myself wearing leggings, just leave more to the imagine, keep all ya' business out the streets. I would suggest wearing darker colored leggings without textures or patterns, the thicker type. Wear a long men's shirt with a belt and a blazer and some short bootie boots to top it off. That is a great look. We as full figure women need to get away from "if they sell it in my size I can wear it". This is NOT so. I believe one would/could have much more confidence if she covered her body in a more respectable classy way. Do yourself a favor and dress to impress always. There is nothing more attractive then a nice ample woman who dresses nice. Wear on your body those pieces that compliment your curves!
Living and Lovin' This Life !
Monday, April 11, 2011
Curvy Joint Do's & Don'ts of Fashion: 1ST DAY OF CURVY JOINT FASHION TIPS 101
Curvy Joint Do's & Don'ts of Fashion: 1ST DAY OF CURVY JOINT FASHION TIPS 101: "First and foremost I am starting this blog due to so many people telling me how I need to make use of my gifts. Years ago while in a m..."
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